Men who visit this website would certainly say yes. Most men prefer women to be sexually aggressive or take more charge during dating and initiating relationships.
As far as telling a man what to do and how to do, put him down all the time, can make man very insecure. But if a woman is aggressive enough but at the same time shows that she cares about her man, then why not?
Yes, men like aggressive women who aren't rude. If you are aggressive woman, you can find a man who will enjoy for who you are. So many men are tired of doing all the work, tired of initiating everything, men are tired of rejection. So, if you are aggressive woman it means he can relax and take it easy.
Not all men want to be in control and take charge all the time, some quiet and more insecure men prefer if a woman takes control. Some women can be very dominant and bossy too.
Strong and aggressive women
Sometimes men have a fantasy of being protected by a strong woman, so aggressive woman would be the perfect fit. The only problem for such guys is to find enough strong aggressive women because most women taught to be feminine, sweet and quiet in order to be liked.
Most men would immediately think they would prefer sexually aggressive woman because it's so rare. Sometimes men don't always know when it's good to make first move or when it's not.
If they see a woman who isn't affraid to take charge, they would be pleasantly surprised and flattered. Isn't it nice to see when a girl is doing everything she can to get your attention or even seduce you?
If a woman can express love and affection while being aggressive then why not?
Sometimes younger men prefer older aggressive women who can teach him things and take charge of their relationship. Aggressive women are very rare though. It can be fun to role play sometimes but if she is aggressive in her nature she would be real match to a very submissive man.
Submissive men love to please a woman and love to be told what to do and how to do. It can be a very strong attraction between them. The more submissive he is the more he will be attractive to aggressive woman. And yes, submissive men do exist. Some of them have to hide this fact but they do exist.
Also, don't judge people by their looks. Very tall women could be very fragile, quiet and feminine, while some short tiny women could the most dominant and aggressive. It depends more on a person's personality and state of mind than looks.
Aggressive attitude matters a lot more than actual looks. Some dominant looking people can be very soft inside, while fragile looking type of person could be an aggressive monster.
Talk to people, watch how they talk and behave and you will know.