Do you get upset easily at something? Do you get hurt often while others would be indifferent to it? Do you think you have emotional wound that haven't healed from past? Many of us are easily bothered by something only because we all have our painful past. We all have positive and negative experiences in life.
That's why you can get very attracted to a wrong person...subconscious attempt to heal your wounds.
When something doesn't work out like you want, but you really tried and hoped, you could have emotional wound for a long time. Maybe you tried to please or win affection of someone who didn't want you. Maybe you got rejected by someone you loved and adored?
Being hurt in past
Why do we feel pain and hurt when others didn't even mean to hurt us? If someone important to you rejects you it only hurts because it touches your unhealed emotional wound. We all want to heal from our past. We all have important events in our past. Did you notice how certain people are more important to you, how you like certain people more then others...only because you unconsciously looking for to heal your emotional wounds and you want to make things right.
Maybe you in a relationship with someone who treats you badly and is abusive to you, you are trying to win his/her affection and do anything you can to feel accepted, loved and healed.
More about healing
Heal your wounds by trying to find their origin, when and where they came from. Once you realize you are so sensitive because of your past, it will be easier to forgive others for not giving you what you so desperately want. You maybe want to be accepted and approved by a rude person, who reminds you of someone rejected you before.
Knowing why you are so sensitive and feel pain even over small things in life, will help you to deal with your pain better and will help you to recover.
Don't just ignore your bad feelings, try to find where they came from, and try to heal them.
Once you think about it, it won't see such huge problem anymore, rejection won't seem so painful anymore. Yes, we do want to control others and we do want they give us what we want. But sometimes we have to give to yourselves what we can't from other people.
