How to attract people to you and is it worth it?

To attract people to you, you need to share their interests, find something similar and do what they like. Sometimes it can seem as too much work though, with not even guaranteed results. If you know what they like, how they think and what they beleive in, it would be easier to attract them if you show you are very similar.

But If you do everything the other person likes, how much will you actually enjoy such relationship? Don't you want to be yourself and enjoy it too? Don't you want to be liked for who you are? Wouldn't you get tired of being liked only for who you pretend to be and not real you? Some people say they would do anything to attract someone they like.

Attraction isn't always a choice and some people go to desperate measures to attract someone they really want.

More tips on attraction

If you see that person often, if you do and talk about things they like, it could create some attraction. You could attract people quite easily, but it's much harder to make them want to be with you. Being attracted and making conscious choice to be in a relationship are different things.

A person could be attracted to you, but for some reason decide that it wouldn't be a good idea of developing relationship. So, you made someone attracted to you, but it's still up to that person to decide what he/she wants to do about it.

You can help people to like you, being attracted to you, but you can't do anything about their free will and free choice do what they want about it.

Just because someone rejects you or rejected you doesn't mean they aren't attracted to you. For example, I rejected a man before I was very attracted to, only because I didn't see a future that I wanted with him. Sometimes people want other things than just strong attraction.