How do you love yourself? First of all, stop hating yourself and stop judging yourself. People need to learn love themselves first and only then they will be tolerant of others. Did you meet someone who would always make rude comments about someone? or someone would always put others down?

Most of the time those people are affraid that they are being judged too, that's why they think it's o'kay to judge others.

People are all different, for some it's easier to love themselves, but for others it's harder and something that has to be learned. If you didn't have great childhood, relatives or friends, you could face more challenges in self love. If you are very sensitive person, it would difficult for you to focus on good feelings.

Why emotionally sensitive people have it hard as when it comes to loving themselves? If you are emotionally sensitive person, it is hard because you feel pain stronger than most people. Emotionally sensitive people have emotional memory and they remember mostly negative painful events of their lives.

Loving yourself as emotionally sensitive person

If you are an emotionally sensitive person, you can get hurt easily, you can get angry easily, and you can remember everything as it just happened a day ago. Did you meet someone who hardly ever remembers anything, and most of the time they don't remember anything negative either? Or did you meet someone who remembers a lot, especially emotionally painful episodes?

I remember talking to a grown woman about why she hates a certain person. She couldn't stand near him, would always avoid him and act like he doesn't exist at all. I thought it was a little strange and when I asked her what's going on...

She said, many years ago that person didn't look right at her, and wasn't polite to her. I'm sure he probably forgot about it, but to emotional sensitive person, it's as real today as it was real a few years ago. Carrying all this baggage of emotional pain can make it difficult for any person.

What if someone didn't say something right to you, or even offended you? Do you really beleive this is who you are? No matter what anyone says, start loving yourself, and believing that everybody treats you nice. Everyone wants to be treated nice and respected, but even if you don't have it in your life right now, beleive that it's out there.

Your faith and your love in yourself can make others beleive you too. People will wonder why you are so happy, why you are so confident, and will treat you better to find out your secret.

More about how to love yourself as emotionally sensitive person

Emotionally sensitive person goes through life like they have open wound that never heals, they can act shy or distant in order to protect themselves from pain and stresses. They can be very kind and charming people but need help to love themselves and to trust others.

If you are an emotionally sensitive person, try to focus on what is good in your life right now. Try to remember positive evens rather than negative. Praise yourself and ask your friends to praise you too. Hearing nice words can improve your self image and self esteem. Keep the positive self talk even in your hardest times of your life.

Life is like an illusion, two people can have the same thing happening to them, but they will react totally different. I remember people who had a good life were complained how bad it was and I remember people who screwed their life, health and everything, were saying they are the luckiest people Earth and had great life. So, you decide if you want to be happy or not.

Be kind to yourself. Seriously, stop judging yourself, but praise yourself often. Look in the mirror and tell yourself how amazing person you are and how much you can offer. Sometimes people blame themselves if something doesn't go their way. Stop blaming yourself, you've done it enough.

Did you know that many criminals have very high self esteem only because they never tried and never failed! Know that you tried and even if you fail sometimes, it's o'kay, it's part of your journey. Failure can be a great experience and mistake that can lead you to greater things.