What women want in a marriage
Women expect in marriage a lot. Most women expect to be loved and feel safe. Women want a man in her life who treats her nice, shows respect, love and is able to be strong when she needs it. Women want to be happy in a marriage. Happiness is essential need and desire for both partners.
Women want a husband who could be sensitive to her needs, sensitive to her emotions, can be encouraging and relied on in the time of need. Women want emotional support from a husband. Sometimes men underestimate a woman's feelings and support she needs during tough times. Women want a husband who has characteristics of the best friend and lover. Women want stability in a marriage.
Are women really that insecure that they want stability in the marriage? Women want stability and security in marriage as much as men do but the difference is that for women stability and security can be part of attraction. Women can be attracted to men who possess those qualities. Some can argue that safety and security is good for comfort but not attraction. It depends on a woman. Some women are really get attracted and love the fantasy of feeling safe and secure. Women want it all. Women want to feel safe and secure and they want to feel attracted to. The better match of those qualities in her husband the happier she would be in her marriage.
What about financial security in the marriage? Women love financial security. You don't have to be super rich to make your woman happy, all you have to have is more than her and give her a quality of lifestyle she always wanted. Many women would be just happy if you took care of all the bills and let her work only if she wants to. Some women don't care how much money you have if she is financially stable but they would want you to have interesting job or do something interesting in your life.
Why do women want successful, interesting and financially stable men as her husband? Because women are easily bored with men and they want something new, fresh, unknowing and exciting. This is a common sense, they also want more freedom. The more money a man has the more freedom, interesting opportunities she is likely to have. Money isn't everything. If you have everything a woman wants except money she will still be attracted to you. I know women who are bread winners in the family and they love it, it's quite rare though.
Most of all women want love and attraction. That's why men who aren't rich and dead broke are still able to get hot beautiful women to do everything for them.
Another very important expectation for a marriage is to have similar beliefs and values. Women want to be understood and they want to understand her partner too. Similar beliefs and values is more important than most people think. Having similar faith in the future, in your partner, in your marriage and whatever else is very important.
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