For example, many women say they want to be friends only...what does it mean?

It means that she isn't very interested in you as a potential mate but she wouldn't mind to spend time with you. If a woman refers to as a her friend she is either doesn't take you seriously or she was hurt before.

Some couples can grow from "friends" to couples but it's really rare. The best to start romantic relationship is to avoid labels "friend" as much as possible.

For example, before I met my husband I liked to treat men as friends, because I wasn't interested to marry them but still had a great time and companionship.

Once I met my husband, the word "friend" wasn't even in my mind and I treated him differently than anyone I met before. I'm realizing it more now and I wasn't really aware at that time what I was doing.

Testing men

Some other tricks that women use to distant themselves is to say "I'm busy" or "I need to focus on my school right now", she doesn't necessary lie, she just doesn't know what to say when you are interested and she isn't.

Most women can't process their thoughts and feelings, so she could be confused too why she isn't attracted to you as much. It's o'kay if she is not interested, move on to the next girl or enjoy your time alone for awhile.

If a woman gets a lot of attention from men, it would be easier for her to move on to the next guy and forget about you. So, be careful with serious daters. Women who love date many different guys they love the attention and looking for the best man out there. The more she likes you, the nicer she will treat you.

Some women have better personality than others, so try to find the best personality match for you that you could handle. But be aware, even the nicest woman is going to challenge you to test your boundaries. Beleive in what you believe and never go against your moral values.

Even if you get married, women won't stop testing you. Maybe she wants to see you still have feelings for her, maybe she wants more passion in her life, so she will test you to see how you will react. This way she is learning about you in some ways. She wants to know what you truly believe in by showing how emotional you are about certain things. She wants to see you love her and she can trust you. You will learn more and more about each other through some simple woman's tests.

What to do?

Understand that women need your emotions. Women love to see you love her, need her and passionate about her. When she gets bored, she could test you a little, to make sure you still really care about her. She wants a strong man who can handle all her tests.

Women are very emotional beings (maybe that's why many women watching soap operas and reality tv shows), she needs to know you still have emotions for her. Many women don't even understand what they are doing and why they are testing men. This is how women are, even if she isn't aware about her behavior and all the tests she has put you through.

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