Why women reject men

Let's face it, rejection isn't fun for anyone. A lot of men get rejected every day and they have no idea why. Let me explain you how women think when they have to reject you...

First of all, women don't like to reject anyone, they don't like confrontations and they usually beleive that they aren't hurting you by being unavailable.

Women have a few clear reasons for rejection:

1. Maybe she is not ready for a new relationship. Sometimes women want to take a break and cool off from previous break up, take her mind off men and take care of herself. Maybe she is not ready for a new drama in her life, so she politely will avoid you and your attempts to get to her.

2. Maybe she has a boyfriend or she has a crush on someone else. Yes, sometimes women can have a crush on someone who isn't interested in her and she is spending all her time and efforts in believing that she can change him or his attitude toward her. She is emotionally unavailable even if she isn't married or doesn't have a boyfriend.

3.Not a right time or place for her. She wants to feel safe. Sometimes women get scared being approached by strangers, someone they don't know, especially if a man looks threatening. She will decline "getting to know you" procedure because she doesn't feel secure in a situation or isn't sure about you.

4.Sometimes women reject even men who they really like. If a woman feels like you are too attractive, she could avoid you believing that too many women will try to seduce you too and you would end up cheating on her. So, even she really likes you she could reject you too. There is no guarantee why a woman will decide to reject you or not.

5.She doesn't like your look. If she really cares how her future husband/boyfriend should look she could reject you if you aren't 6ft tall like she wants. Why should she settle for you if there are so many guys want her attention. This is how initial rejection works. Once you get to know her, you could attract her no matter what your looks, height or income.

6.She thinks you aren't rich enough or you can't afford her. Women are looking for men who can actually afford her lifestyle. It sounds shallow but why not? Why should she settle for less when there are so many guys are willing to spend money one her? So, women do it because they can and because men allow it.

7.Women reject men if they have been hurt in a previous relationship. Yes, some women are so sensitive that they never want to date anyone after a hurtful break up.

As you can see, so many reasons why women reject men and most of these reasons have more to do with her than you. No matter how much rejection you are going to face from women in your life, never think that you are not good enough. Always beleive that some women will love you and appreciate you for who you are.

It hurts to be rejected or being lonely, but don't get your hopes too high too soon. Women don't want to hurt you, they have their own issues to deal with and they don't really want to upset you, make you bitter or angry.

Start a new day as your new life and have faith for the best. Beleive you are great and if a woman rejected you just say to yourself something like"Thanks God, she probably wasn't good for me in the long run anyway. I still have a chance to find my perfect girl and I will."

Be optimistic and feel good about yourself. It's a lot easier to attract women when you are happy than if you are depressed. Wish you the best.

Tall Corina

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